Boyfriend shuts off your brain & praises you (m4f)
🕑 Added 2024-11-15 22:33:26 +0000 UTCHello my beautiful creatures! Thank you for your patience, as ever. We're in some fun new territory today -- might not be for everyone, so please be sure to read the CW. And don't fret if it's not your thing. Your thing is probably coming up soon. Enjoy 😘
POV: You're glued to your phone, stressed and working, when your sweet, doting boyfriend intervenes. He knows you're mentally frazzled. So why not just turn off your brain for the night and be his simple-minded girlfriend? It's just a silly roleplay, sure. But his words of praise -- and the look in his eye -- are very, very real.
CW: In this episode, the speaker character consensually patronizes, coddles, and praises the listener character in a gentle dominant-submissive dynamic. After initially noting that the listener character is under significant mental strain, the speaker character suggests that she pretend to be "unintelligent" for the evening as a playful stress-relief activity. She agrees. He then playfully and lovingly condescends to her, calling her "dumb" and worshiping her for her physical attributes and simple behaviors. The speaker character uses patronizing & objectifying language in this vein (e.g. "my sweet, dumb little girlfriend," "my stupid little baby girl," "brainless," "smooth brain," "good girl," "bimbo behavior," etc.) knowing that it will soothe and please the listener character. He sometimes also expresses other gently dominant behaviors, e.g. telling the listener character "don't talk back" when he's praising her. The speaker character continually reminds the listener character to "stop thinking" and let him do everything he can to please and care for her. He then encourages the listener character to divulge any sexual desires so he can fulfill them. She asks for oral sex (23:55-30:45) and mutual oral sex (30:45-34:45). Pet names are used extensively throughout the episode, including "baby," "darling," "sweetheart," and "babygirl."
Note that this content is entirely fictional and all sexual acts are simulated. All characters portrayed are 18+ years of age.
Comments
HeraSophia
I miss you
HeraSophia
Hey BF, can I come here later and you shut me off?
kater
I really appreciate this one because I actually worked myself to the point of burnout and now I just struggle to exist most days. It would’ve been nice to shut my brain off like this for a bit. I’m hoping that I can get back to a place where I balance work with things that help me relax and enjoy life rather than swinging from one side of the pendulum to the other. Thank you for this one, DDA.
Esoterica
Ms. Elf Amen. I actually rly agree with you, everyone expects us to be super-women. I mean more power to the women who feel they have it all under control. I am driven and goal oriented, but to be honest...much more comfortable if my partner makes the decisions. (BTW, there's a new movie on Fandango called "Babygirl" that other sub minded ppl)...mostly women but hey male subs might like it too. Just thought I'd mention it, because...it kinda hits close to me. Setting aside the age thing, but I see the dynamic as more important. Didn't know if anyone else was curious, the trailer looked good. If you enjoyed "Eyes Wide Shut", this will probably draw u in. As soon as the rent price goes down, I'm watching it.
Vered
Pure therapy.
Ms. Elf
Oh, to be taken care of like this! Us hard working women are so used to just doing it all that we forget that it's OK to let someone else pamper us. I know I am constantly trying to keep up with work, kids, appointments, the house, the dogs, everyone's medication, bills, and a billion other little things. I have to set alarms in my phone to remind me both the day before and an hour before anything important. I've never been told I was perfect, and I know I'm not, but still it's nice to hear it from someone, even if you don't know me from Eve. 16:00- 20:00 turned me into mush. And the sexy half drove me mad. I'm going to sleep very well tonight. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Ann Harlow
Oh nooo this is making me cryy its too sweet!
Gothic.sun
I ended up tearing up a bit from the compliments and praises. I don’t have a partner, and I hope one day I can have a partner who will appreciate and make me grin and blush like crazy like this audio did. As well as make me cum just as hard 🫣🤭
love.lypeach
🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Trinity Hansford
Me.exe encountering error. Software malfunction in process
Jennifer Chadwick
I feel sooooo seen!!!
Theophena Wish
This one had me smiling from ear to ear. It was sweet and silly and I adored every bit of it. 😶🌫️😆
Jae☺️
Listening to DD through the studio pro beats headphones is a surreal experience. Lordt! The sfx in this one. 🥵😍
✨️Nox✨️
He knows what we need
Michelle
Im sure there are others that feel the same way, but the care and loving attention you show in this and the Boyfriend holds you after a nightmare episode make you my hero. I love these stories. By the end, I feel like I've been rescued from a terrible plight. Thanks Love.
Pink is superior
Do a breeding one but in the form of him baby trapping us!!
Michelle
Same here. I managed to download it before I lost it completely though.
PurityofThought
I can still access that post through my notifications tab, but it is hidden for me as well if I attempt to access it directly through his page.
Ruby
Same here I was about to click it after listening to it on YouTube. By the time I come back and resume it it said audio is set hidden. Hope everything is okay..
Less Lune
Yeah I didn’t get a chance to listen either ☹️
January Jaxon
Not just you. It was only up for like an hour. No idea what happened.
Doña Yayi
Same!!! Wanted to listen to it again !!!! 🥺🥺🥺
Ari
i can't find it either 😭😭😭 it sounded so good, too
Emme
I can’t access the new audio, is it just me?
theshrugslife
He really said no thoughts head empty
pinkxp0
bro ilysm u don’t even know. idk how but u got me listening to audios to sleep and do some other things.. never woulda thought..!
Lulu
DDA in a nutshell ❤️
nightbluesky
turn my brain right off and make me *mush*
JL
Yep, ruminating - that’s me! If I had a silly superhero name, it would be The Ruminator 😁 And oh my gosh, I *have* clapped for things I’m excited about. More often than not, it has to do with food. 😅 This brings me to: bibimbap. I saw the YouTube comment about your pronunciation. Sounded pretty good to me! (I’m not Korean, though.) But what I'm more interested in is: can you *make* bibimbap? Or how about gimbap/kimbap? Because it would impress the hell out of me if you could make gimbap! One last thing, regarding how we smell: in college, I was playing squash with a buddy and made a comment about getting sweaty and smelly. His response: “Girls don’t get smelly. They smell like strawberries!” 😂
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Eyy welcome to the party, Aquariana 💖
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Welcome back, Dani! 😘
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Hadn't thought about it but maybe!
Sherri
I love a man who is in charge and treats you like a princess in bed.
Emera
This definitely puts me in such a cozy comfy mood..imagining how nice and cool it is in the bedroom, smell of clean linen on the bed, feeling the warmth of your lover lying next to you, smelling their natural scent, then soon feeling their warm lips pressing against your neck then to your lips and leading eachother into a night of intense carnal passion till sunrise🧡❤️💙❤️🧡
CJ
I usually never comment but this felt so specific and targeted and special. As a burnout corporate girlie, I really needed to hear « be my dumb girlfriend » and so much praise I fell asleep with a smile before the spicy bits 🥹 Thank you so much. The caring bf role plays are always so perfect. 🖤
Enxia
This got me emotional, especially at the start. Where the boyfriend was coaxing his girlfriend and telling her that she didn't need to do anything to be special. Thank you so much for this~!!! 💕💕
Aquariana Rose
NEW SUBCRIBER HERE, these are so comforting and I appreciate you for making them
Dani A
IM BACKKKKK REJOINED AFTER SOME MONTHS 😔😔🙏💕
Ariel
By any chance will you be making a Christmas themed audio?
Lakora
Im curious: Is there a reason why you're asking that?
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Aww glad it helped a little bit, Midnight 🫂
Ruby
🫂
Midnightcrayon88
Damn it, DD! 😮💨 Respectfully....fuck you lol I thought I was just going to give this a listen for funsies, but oh no. You literally made me cry. No joke, I was lying here with tears running down my face. Every detail of that convo was tailor-made for me. I've really been going through it for a while and I needed every second of this audio. Thank you so much 🩷
sesshona Bee
I feel very called out right now. Also very relaxed. Thanks for letting me be stupid for a bit!
Luna
Finally got a chance to listen.. listening again.... man.. you just do things. You have a way of comforting while making things spark within us. I love this so much. And you always get me there. ALWAYS.. but.. this.. with the praise before.. good lord. Thank you DDA love. Hope you're well. ♥️♥️🫶🏼
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Welcome! 😘
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Thank you, Kryina ❤️
Kryina Histen
The being on the phone while watching TV part hit something in me. Cause I've had fights about that before. Deep you're really something special ❤️
Sabrina
The way this filled me with yearning for both a caring boyfriend as well as every food item listed 😭 This one was relaxing to listen to, I needed this ❤️
izzy
yeah this was the vid that got me to sub LMAOOO
🍂 PurityofThought 🍂
I could see it being challenging to simulate the sounds of various sex acts. For example, manual sex like handjobs and fingering are *so* underrepresented, but if the SFX are not accurate, it would completely break the immersion for me.
🍂 PurityofThought 🍂
"You don't have to have any answers." Knowing exactly what my overthinking, people-pleasing ass needed this afternoon. Head empty, body trembling that's how I want to be. Also, 25:42-26:10, one of the many reasons I look forward to your M4F audios 🥵🫠. I realize that snippet is just 30 seconds long, but damn did it paint such a vivid picture in my mind.
Pandora Mauve
I would absolutely LOVE to shut my brain off for a bit. It gets exhausting having to be on top of things and dealing with constant chaos. 😵💫 This audio just melted my brain. 🫠 I swear your voice just has a way of being both sultry and calming at the same time. 😌 Sir, I’m gonna need you to continue whatever black magic it is that you’re doing. Keep it cu—coming. 🫣🤭
Nox
Oh this is a much needed audio for me right now. Hopefully I get some free time during lunch to listen to this fully. Thank you DDA! 🫶
CorvidQueen319
God damnnnn… Fuck, I needed this. I’m always so in my head having to take care of my baby and the apartment, but fuck… Gods, this was so deliciously filthy~… Thank you *very* much, DD~ 😘
Elizabeth
When you called me stupid I was like “ummm. Excuse you?”
Mini Maus
Eeeeey IYKWIM
Mini Maus
He has a mini super power with the laughter of his 🫠🫠🫠🫠
Mini Maus
I’m done with all 3/4 of the audios - don’t judge me 😝 and I’d say it is mostly cunnilingus. As a strong believer in the principle of reciprocity, if you want your pussy eaten right, suck dick equally devoutly 😌 and finally - to keep the rant to a minimum- soft sex can be done in the real world, so let me happily pay for the fantasy of being roughed up and manhandled 🤭. I think the only two things DD’s content is missing that my dirty little self wants (1) MMF content — not possible done alone at the quality level of creators as BKS with multiple VA do, this from such a dedicated creator I’m not expecting it and (2) bdsm - a very personal taste that DD might not identify with. We love you papi 😜.
Queen Zelda
oh my gosh, that was so so so so amazingly good :D thank you for the dessert <3
Juls
Ahhh, I'll tell dates that because my job is thinking, I don't like to think when I'm not working ☺️ all I can say to this is wowwie 🥴
Heather
This is amazing. I'd love to be able to just be dumb girlfriend for a little while
Michelle
Now that I've exhausted all of my thinking and come to terms with letting go, I've realized that the only reason I could let go was because of the sweet talk. I think there was a place where the speaker asks the listener what she's thinking about. My thought at that moment was, "I'm just thinking about all the sweet things you're saying to me." That's when I understood that what I really needed was someone to tell me that I'm valued and worthy of love for more than just my ability to think. As a child, I was not pretty or charismatic. Even though I might have been sweet and kind, I was plain Jane, chubby, and too shy to show anyone how sweet or kind I was. The one thing I had of merit was my brain, which worked amazingly well. That is where I found my self worth. This story helped me figure that out. Yes, incessant thinking again. Sorry, but in order to move away from the thinking, I have to figure out why it's been so important to me. Your voice through the whole thing is smiling, warm, safe, and comforting. My favorite part of the sweet talk is when the speaker is reminiscing about the last neck nuzzling cuddle time that led to sexy time and how afterward, he felt like the whole world, and "the angels in heaven" were jealous of him. I don't know how to describe how I felt except that all of my resolve to keep thinking melted away in that section. How beautiful it would be to be thought of in that way. Your stories are like therapy. Thank you. Now, I'm about to enjoy this babying one more time before I go to sleep.
Immy Rose
I'm not going to lie but I really enjoyed this audio, it helped me turn off my brain for a little while and DDA's voice always sends shiver down my spine but good one obviously 😍 keep up the amazing work
LittleMai
Aw, thanks. 🥰
Broke_Broke
Emptied our brain just to get it filled back up in the end. 😏 10/10.
39crazy
I need such a bf for my overthinking, over-analyzing brain, to stop those thoughts for a while...but, luckily, here's DD with his voice, story and strong soul energy that I feel over time and space ❤️🫦 btw, when you mantioned bibimbab I started to be hungry 🍜 but you feeded me nicely, so you're forgiven ❤️
Shellbelle
This premis is intriguing. You know considerably more about the brain than I do, but I didn't know I could make a sustained choice to "be dumb." The analogy to an empty beach was helpful; just a safe feeling. I also liked the contrast of gentle patience from Dom consequence for thinking. I really wanted to dislike this so I could legitimize a request for a second audio this week. So instead I'm just gonna selfishly ask for more, more, more! ❤️❤️
Naomi
This is random but I love your profile pic!
Michelle
Questions: Why is it so hard to turn off the thinking? Is it just the way my brain works? Is it something from my childhood that spurs me to do it? Is it fear that I will miss something and screw things up? Is it because I don't trust the people around me to keep up with everything that needs to be done? Is psychologizing a real word? ( I guess it is since autocorrect didn't try to change it.) How do you know these things about me? Where has this guy been all my life? See, even now I can't stop. Maybe that's one of the things I love about listening to your stories. They take me out of my world of responsibility for 30-50 minutes.
Naomi
You’re back and you brought SNACKS! That’s the dream
A
I appreciate the consistent message to the listener to GTFO of work that shows up in your audios. Because yes. And honestly, same to you when you need that.
JL
Thank you!
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Oh no, feel better gooner!
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Hey Helios! It's a really popular thing so I include it in a lot of eps -- I aim to please the crowd, you know? But comments like yours can always steer me in the other direction so ty for weighing in ❤️
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Thank you, Anne 😘
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Safe travels, JL!
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Haha I'm getting cooked for my pronunciation on YouTube -- sorry to my Korean fans
Xenia
Could you make an audio where you repeatedly say "bibimbap"?
JL
Just popping in to say hi again. I'm in Kyoto now. Autumn is late to Japan this year, but it's still lovely. 🍁💕 Anyways, hope you're well!
Anne Yoon
OMG the moment I heard "bibimbap" I was sold. I feel so seen. Thank you DD! I usually don't like giving up on my thoughts or intellect, but you unlocked something in me, I didn't think I needed. Thank you again. Much love 🥰
Michelle
I'm finally at the point in the evening when I can truly allow myself to be dumb and stop thinking. Nobody needs me for anything until tomorrow morning, so I can let this episode take care of me. 50 minutes later: I really wanted to put myself in the listener's place, so I pretended for just a little while that it was real. There are so many things the speaker touched on that I struggle with on a daily basis. I don't have to bring work home with me, but there are always things that need to be done around the house that involve work. It was nice to forget about all that for a while. There were several sweet moments when I felt tears roll down my cheeks and I just wanted a neck to nuzzle. Then the sexy part slid right in and everything else faded away. Several minutes and a lot of gasping, twisting and bucking later, I feel much better. I'm looking forward to a good night's sleep. This ep will be on repeat for a while. Thank you DDAddy from one of your dumb baby girls.
Pam 701
The beginning of this is so funny when you’re telling the listener what you want them to do and why. You keep laughing during that, and I love it. All of the pet names and compliments are so wonderful. OMFG, to have someone talk to me like that. 😩🫠 Then the sounds you make during the oral part are unbelievably hot ending in another spectacular finish! It’s been a little while, but this was definitely worth the wait. Thanks, DDA! ❤️😩🥵🔥🥵😩❤️
Helios
Why does every audio have to have fellatio in it? I listen to a lot of these audios in rapid succession and it's mostly sucking dick and hard banging. I get that there are some things that are good for audio, but do we really have to suck dick 95% of the time?
Kenzo
Yay! I was waiting for your next post and honestly this was such a wonderful way to spend the evening. 🥰😍💜
MeridianSkye
This was so sweet. One of my favorite story lines. Those sounds. You're too much, but in the best way possible. Thank you for this.😍🫠
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Stay safe out there! 💞
LittleMai
Smiling ear-to-ear in the middle of the ocean. I was so worried I wouldn’t be able to enjoy your work on patrol. ^_^ I love a soft DDA reset.
Lauren ♡
Thank you love ⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡
Julz
DDA, a very handsome piece of audio, thank you very much. Title made me chuckle because my husband would love to shut off my brain for a little while sometimes ha ha xx
Ruby
Welcome back!!!
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Even this one!
Ruby
Yep, I listened to this while cooking dinner (didn’t burn anything or loose a finger), and all I can say is that this was delicious.
Layla is tired
I have literally never been more excited to read a description of one of your audios. And get this: I was listening to a sleep sounds audio while doing work at a coffee shop… I’d been working for so many hours, I was dehydrated and cold and worn out… and then that other audio ended AND THIS ONE STARTED AUTOPLAYING and for a second I thought I’d officially lost it and was hearing voices. 😂 Guess what? After listening for 2 minutes, I packed up and left. Had to write this comment sitting in my car before getting on the way home. You, Sir, are having a very real effect on my life. 🖤
ruby_thursday
no way he likes every comment
Kam
How’d you know I needed this 😩😭 it’s really been hitting at how much I just don’t want to think & wish I had the guidance where I wouldn’t have too. Thank youuuu
Mini Maus
Finally we’ve been blessed 🥹 Mr. We’ve been waiting for you 😘
Fishbowl
This dynamic and the toxic dynamics are my absolute favorite ever, please bring back the toxic characters soon, ur the goat fr 🫶
brneyes_tk
Hmmm...escapism tiptoeing toward reality. I listened while working.😏😉 I see you DDA. A very shrewd Friday post. Alright, unplugging now ❤️
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Welcome back, Lauren 😘
Lauren ♡
OMGG I so missed this! I took a small break from the *deepdark* lifestyle but I’m back now (≧◡≦) ♡
Kenna
cries in math/philosophy major who can't relate 😭😭😭
January Jaxon
Sometimes I joke that my therapist should be paying you a commission for his ongoing job security. 😂 Why is praise so goddamn uncomfortable. Also, def cooking bibimbap for dinner now so thanks for improving my night on multiple fronts.
Lakora
Not bad at all!!
Michelle
First listen was sweet and yummy. I expect I will listen many more times. Will I be able to be dumb? Maybe I can, at least for the length of this audio. Thanks Love.
Mina Bee
Sushi AND Bibimbap AND tacos?? Aghh my heart 🫠
Doña Yayi
Oh yasss exactly what i need tonight!!!! Well im gonna go get myself ready to take a listen and prepare to feel the thingles ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥 this deserves a glass of pineapple cream RumChata 🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃
kirbs
THANK YOU DDA 🙏😫😫😫
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I really ASMRed myself into a corner when I mentioned bibimbap 😵💫
Miss Katonic
I am so tired of being smart and so many things to/for so many people. Just want be dumb gf, brain a potato. Also now hungy 🥺🥴
kirbs
THANK YOU FOR BLESSING ME DDA 😫🙏🏼
Mina Bee
I needed my brain to me shut off today 😩🖤 Can’t wait to listen to this one DDA
Alexandra Mac
But if I don’t stop I won’t get ahead 😭😭😭 Stop calling me out with your bf asmr! 😅🤣😂 in all seriousness, another favorite. I clicked on that notification SO fast 😅😁
Luna
I needed something like this so bad. I can't wait to listen. Thank you DDA Sir. ❤️❤️😘😘
Madz
Smooth brain. No ridges or bumps, no valleys or lumps.
Christy
My two favorite audio creators uploaded within 7 minutes apart. Consider my Friday BLESSED. 🥹😍🙌🏼🫶🏼🖤
Michelle
I'm listening.😇
E. Rose
I- SIR?! (tyvm)
gooner
god bless u DDA 🙏🏻
amani!
this is relatable bc when i’m with a boy i trust i just shut my brain off sometimes….is that bad 😟
gooner
just what i needed as i suffer from pneumonia
gooner
HELL YES