7cupsbobatae
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Let's talk
🕑 Added 2025-06-29 16:07:15 +0000 UTCHi everyone. I wanted to talk about something. Since it's looking like it's going to get big, i wanted you to hear a story on my side. I had no intention to make this post but looks like i have no choice.
In this story i'm going to tell, i will hide names due to obvious reasons. There are two people involved in this. I will call these people as A and B. This story is going between person A and B. It had nothing to do with me but one of them decided to make it about me. So here we go.
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It all started after sharing the Sylus sim as COTM. I did not include his outfits due to company being very unhappy with their models being exported. To avoid takedown, i didn't include them. But this A person was very annoyed of me not sharing his outfits. Then, to calm them down, i told them where to find Sylus' outfits. They couldn't find it. Even though it was a very easy search, they couldn't find it and kept complaining both in comments and community chats. Then, the person B decided to contact them and send them a link for this character's outfits. But how could they contact them? They clicked on their profile, this click lead them to person A's patreon. There was a youtube linked and when you click on their youtube, there is a "Contact me" button. When person B clicked on this, it showed the email adress of person A. With good intent, person B sent an email to help person A.
Person A took this offensively and considered it was a violation of their privacy. They contacted me and very angrly explained that this person B stalked them and found their email in the creepy way. At first, i was shocked that person B did this. I mean, how could they stalk person A, right? So i contacted person B and asked how and why did they stalked person A. Depending on their response, i was going to ban person B. But then, person B explained the situation and how they found person A's email adress in the first place. Turns out, person B found the person A's information due to person A decided to write their very own email adress publicly. ANYONE who finds their youtube can click their "contact me" button and see their email. It's not a magic trick. In the end, person A wrote their own info publicly themselves.
I turned to person A, explained the situation and said that they wrote their own email publicly. Still, person A was VERY, VERY angry. Commanded me to tell person B to not contact them again. So i did. I told person B to not contact person A ever again because person A felt violated and does not want to be contacted by person B. I actually told them to not contact person A multiple times. Person B agreed and promised not to do so. And actually, person B stopped typing them. But the very angry person A decided to contact B themselves. Called them names and curses for sending them an email in the first place. Person B felt upset so they sent an answer to person A and explained that they were only trying to be kind. But of course, person A wasn't expecting a response after insulting person B answer. When person B tried to explain themselves to person A, everything fell apart.
Person A contacted me again with very rude tone and commanding me to ban person B. At this point, things were going very intense and i have no single connection with person A nor person B. They are my supporters and we have no other relations. I'm being completely neutral here.
But unfortunately, person A has a history of going other creators' pages and calling them names, doing some rude things and end up getting blocked. On top of that, person A was doing this for months to me. Every single time they did this to me, i tried to calm them down. Tried to be reasonable. Let their curses slide multiple times. I have saved every conversation where they were harassing me. More than 3 times. And yesterday was the last line they have crossed.
I was still trying to calm them down and told them that "yeah, they shouldn't have contacted with you in there first place". I mean, who wants to be get cursed and called names from person A, right? Person B shouldn't have tried to help them. Since they wrote their very own information themselves, i wouldn't call this "violation of privacy". But i tried to understand them and to keep things cool, i tried to reason with them so many times. I told person B to not ever contact person A again, yet, they answered person A's angry, insulting message.
Can i control anyone's actions? Can i make them type or not type?
Person A kept insulting me because person B responded their insulting mail back. Then, person A demanded me to ban person B. They were not listening to me and kept sending same exact message back to back with copy-paste. I went back to person B and asked for the mails of person A to person B. So person B showed me the mails (on their fb page), where person A calling them names and threatening person B to be getting banned from my page etc.
So the outcome would be me banning person B here, IF they were really stolen person A's information. BUT since person A personally wrote their email adress publicly themselves, i can't blame person B. Since person A kept harassing me to ban person B, cursed me, on top of that, this was not their first doing, i decided to block person A. Person A's June payment fully refunded.
Unfortunately going on, person A made this issue all about me. Decided to go after me and shared untrue stories about me everywhere and acted like i was the reason person A and person B got into fight in the first place. They are still doing this nonstop on social media.
Personally, my conscience is clean. While i didn't have any part to play in this, person A decided to make everything about me and go after me.
I was always transparent to you. So i wanted you to know this as well.
I have all the conversation screenshots but for now, i'm not pouring them out yet. If it comes to it, i can share them.
I sincerely apologize for taking your time. I sincerely apologize that this has to be posted here. But this problem is not even about me but thanks to person A and their false judgement, i'm being targeted nonstop. I only wanted to explain myself here.
Comments
Renee Creations
Ugh, I am so sorry to hear that you had to deal with such an unreasonable person. Unfortunately, there are people out there that just refuse to allow others to have peace. Please don't allow others to bring you down. You are a wonderful person and creator. I appreciate you very much as I am sure the rest of your followers here do.
Daeworn
Well, my lesson from this unfortunate story is: never ever be kind to people on internet for free and allways help publicaly, so other people "may" see the maniac in action. It will not dether all maniacs, but at least I would get payed for the headache if they are. And some people are less "brave" to call someone names if there are others that can see it. It would not dether all, since many nowadays act, like there are no consequences and everyone can make fake account, but irrational people usually lack the logic to do so. Anyway, this storm will probably pass on if they lost feedback reaction from you @7cupsbobatae.
Jroc
I am sorry you had to deal with that, at the end of the day, its a game, and someone is taking their time to make the game more enjoyable for everyone (you). That being said, nobody has the right to demand anything of you; its your time, and business. Also, you are providing a service, and you have a right to stop providing service to anyone who harrasses, or bullies you. Read through the story and person "A" is the instigator (i saw the original comments). Hope you don't let a single person ruin your community. Have a great day!
