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Aiden's Advice Show (Starring: Joshman) #104 [VIDEO]

🕑 Added 2024-08-26 14:27:52 +0000 UTC

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misterthezeem

Man I was there for that stream, Morse ruined the whole fucking stream but everything seems Irie now

Zak

54:40 If you have tried to talk to them cordially about the problems is it okay to vent about people who are doing me harm ? Edit: I have started to save it for my therapist, but I just got a new one so until I build rapport with them I have been venting to those around me - but they also see the problems happening and agree with me about them.

Dalton Carrick

No that’s the way it should be, you’re balenced

Josh Texrecksia

My name is Josh and I'm 6'4" but I've never played melee if that makes you feel any better

Tasha

Is that bald nadeshot?

ghostwritersrus

Can we get some examples of what's on Aiden's gf's newsletter?? That sounds super dope and I'd love to do that with my friends

Dallin Stoddard

The emotions of "idk why I didn't bring it up sooner but now It feels over whelming" is so real, my wife has asked me so many times "then why didn't you tell me this sooner" and I'm just like "idk it wasn't big enough of a problem to boil over then' and it's true, as a guy I need to do more self thinking about what might be bothering me before it becomes something I blow up about

Christian Oviatt

For the men’s emotions question: I’ve had a hard time confiding in people that matter to me, and I only tell people what’s wrong when I feel like I need help fixing it. I have in the past thought that certain things that I had thought as non-issues where things that the people around me think are major issues and could have been fixed if communicated earlier. That and it gets harder as I get older, and because of a lack of a SO, I can only confide in my family or select friends. I guess it’s the “Man Up” mentality, because it does feel like confiding in people with issues is seen as a sign of weakness in my own mind, and I understand that it’s a toxic habit, but it is a habit I learned from my experiences as a man.

JR

I deleted twitter

Eli

In response to the male emotions question: I used to be very guarded and stoic because I felt I had to be, then around 24-25 I made a concerted effort to reconnect with my emotions (outside of an angry/happy binary) and I'm definitely better off because of it. In doing this, the responses from my male friends varied. Some were very responsive and met me with emotional vulnerability as well, and those friendships are the ones I have continued to foster and are growing strong. Others seemed put off by my new emotions and weren't receptive at all, and while not all of those friendships died because of this, they certainly aren't as strong as the ones that include emotional intimacy. Moral of the story, just allow yourself to feel, and be open and honest with your friends. The true ones will reciprocate and you'll grow together.