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Forced to move
🕑 Added 2018-03-28 06:29:42 +0000 UTCAs the title says, the adventure begins to find a new place to live. I see it as a stumble amidst that whole "two steps forward, one step back" way of living. My husband, thekitfox made a post on tumblr and I think it's an adequate long version of what's been happening. Every time I try to write it myself I just go blank on what to say.
https://arcades-mod-blog.tumblr.com.....he-end-of-last
For those that don't have a tumblr account
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Towards the end of last year my grandma passed away and that was a devastating time for us, it was sudden and unexpected, she was finally getting better and doing things on her own, walking around and being herself, but then she got hit with a sudden brain aneurysm and lost her ability to speak, and from there it went rapidly downhill until she passed away in september and from then thats when the problems really started. My grandmother did not write out a will and neither did my grandpa so the house that we all live in, My wife, my mom and me, was in a legal limbo that we had try to go to probate court to suss out. In the meantime we find out that the reverse mortgage my grandparents put on the house many years ago had defaulted, and while were still living here. The reverse mortgage company did very little to try to contact us, and after a few months of uncertainty the final shoe dropped.
We got a letter in the mail saying our house was going to be put up for public auction on the 30th of March. Once its sold we should have to vacate the property So.. Im not sure what were going to do. Mom is looking into a trailer that we might be able to buy but theres the issue of lot rent somewhere. And were still trying to get me on disability and medicaid which has been very slow going with very annoying stumbling blocks regarding paperwork and information gathering that is beyond my abilities at the moment. I really wish I had a plan but ive got so much day to day to worry about that im finding it hard to focus.
I figured Id let my followers know whats up with me and whats going on with us. Its the reason weve both been very depressed and rather scarce online these days. With Noben its affecting her moods and will to draw or be productive and with me Ive just been spiraling into a well of dark thoughts and feelings about myself and my health.. Its pretty much a last ditch effort but if anyone can help us out at all it will be incredibly appreciated and I know my wife and family will be thankful for helping us in this terrible situation. We have nowhere to go currently and the end of the month is approaching faster and faster.
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The short version is that things suck and we have to move at the end of the month. Gabby's grandparents were swindled into a reverse mortgage hell, so after they both passed away it was like a dam falling apart and here are the waves. I'm trying to stay upbeat on it. It's been difficult to concentrate when extended family is understandably in and out of the house helping to put away things in storage. I would have said something earlier in a journal but I have too much pride and I'm stubborn, and I also feel terrible for having commissions still taking as long as they have so it makes it that much harder to make any kind of journal at all.
I tell you one thing though, the date and timing of this whole thing is cosmically fabulous.
What this means for the patreon is I will do my best to keep this updated while we are in moving limbo, the art and comics are still going to be worked on, just have to take care of this life crap first.
