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Curating the perfect environment
🕑 Added 2023-03-21 16:58:44 +0000 UTCHow to curate the perfect environment to allow for it to game for you
How to curate the perfect environment to allow for it to game for you:
The environment causes all sorts of distractions for everyone. If you can experience something with a women like when they blow co2 into the air, you can say did you make it cold in here? This even done poorly will inevitably pump her state because even if she doesn’t hear you she felt the cold air
Do you see where I am going with this ?
It takes a lot of pressure off yourself and her for an interaction to go well
Combining this with having a good table area or section as well as social proof, preselection, and status is a WMD.
And to top it all off you should be using instagram stories feature to fomo anyone not in attendance. Using ig stories to film girls as the literal OPENER is the best opener in this sort of environment. You can even have them pick a filter and then tag themselves for bonus points
Now if you fail to pull anyone due to any sort of bad logistics, you can message them the next day via ig. Make sure they follow you from their phone for the optimal results. Either way you now have your foot in the door.
While the faggy PUAS couldn’t even get in the venue and are direct opening 5s on the sidewalk, you now have a litany of girls from just one night.
Now you are probably asking yourself how do you get into this position. The only answer is you must provide value to what I refer to as “table buyers”
The best way at first is to bring women with you. They should ideally be found at similar venues already on previous nights out. They way I did it was visiting the clubs sister restaurant during their lady’s nights. They hire atmosphere girls or models to sit around with the owners and promoters. They usually double as bottle girls, depending on the city
Start talking with the owners. Ask around. I “hand of Goded’ one of the owners over. Spotted him a mile away in his Gucci tracksuit and waved him over. By this point I was frustrated he seemingly had all the hot women. The only way to get on his good side was bringing ones he hadn’t met before
I did this on my first night out. Invited 2, each brought a friend and I “chained gamed” girls which was just connecting groups of girls with other groups of girls
We ended up with a total of 15 and the owner asked me to bring them to his table. We had met 4 other guys so I told him it was just too hard to move so many people over at the time
Do you see how this story stands out ? You never know what people remember. I caused a scene. You need to be causing scenes everywhere you go. Doesn’t mean being a douchebag who breaks shit and stuff. It means being outgoing and gregarious
Become a connector, become a person people want to be around, and become a person of value and substance as this opens more doors than any "opener" ever could
