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Patron 5 for 5 #305 - April 2, 2024

🕑 Added 2024-04-03 02:28:09 +0000 UTC

Comments

Floof

You two are hilarious together. I love your banter.

Shannon Iacobacci

As someone who just got married in May of last year Nicole is 100% correct. All of our invites had and guest or both people in the couple on the invitation

katie hoover

Lol yep Nicole is correct. I just had this happen to me. My husband got a wedding invitation with only his name on it. He even asked the groom to confirm. I was not invited, just him.

Elizabeth

Nicole is correct.

Tim Wahl

Nicole is correct unless the invitation had a check box on the rsvp for a +1

Angela W

Nicole is correct. If you know the partners name of the person you are inviting, you should out their name on the invitation. If you don't know them or they are not in a serious relationship then you let them know they are welcome to bring a plus one.

Muri Dueppen

Nicole is correct about the etiquette. Rob is correct in ascertaining what Marianne's intentions likely were.

Selina

Nicole is correct 10000%

Jenn Costner

If your name isn’t on the invite or a section for a plus 1, you’re not invited. But also, you’re “the man” so I guess it doesn’t matter either way. 🤣But also, Nicole isn’t being ridiculous. Food ain’t free 😂

Jason Lee

I have never sent any wedding invites myself so don't know the etiquette, but am curious to know if the RSVP had a checkbox or any other indication about the number of attendees associated with the invite.

David Allen

Sorry Rob but as someone who just got married in Oct Nicole is 100% correct on this one. It's all about the labeling. Plus if the couple uses a website for RSVP you should also be able to see how many people in your party they are offering invites to.

Amy Herring

Nicole is right, wedding etiquette is unless it says “Mr. And Mrs….” Or “and guest”, it’s just the person listed on the invitation invited.

Elisabeth Berry

Nicole is 100% RIGHT about the wedding invite. I’m planning a wedding and single people are not getting a guest because it’s expensive!!! However Rob and Nicole are on the invite list!!

Samantha Aug

Nicole is correct I’m planning a wedding right now and its one of the many unspoken rules 😂

Rob H

Not invited

Colleen Mastel

I am 100% on Nicole’s side. She wasn’t invited.

Kurt Conner

My general thought is that if an additional guest affects the host (birthday party catering that charges by number of guests, a wedding reception with assigned seating at tables, a board game night that can only fit X number of players), it’s not safe to assume a +1 is welcome (but a guest should be able to ask a host, maybe even sending an RSVP “Nicole and I would love to attend together, but I can’t make it if we can’t both be there”).

Tara Thompson

Nicole is correct. With a formal invitation to any occasion, if it doesn't include "and guest" you cannot assume you can bring a plus one.

Noah C.

Rob is right in the sense that it's generally proper to invite any spouses and long-term partners, however Nicole is correct in this case that unless her name (or "guest") is on the invite, she's not invited.

Kaitlin Schmidt

Sorry Rob. Nicole is right. You could’ve asked but the invitation did not include a plus one if it wasn’t specifically stated in some way

Hector Acevedo

If Nicole ever doubts she is 100% Latina, her reaction to not being on the invite confirms it. 😅 (…and honestly, every 5 for 5 conversation confirms it. I just knew before I even knew.)