Michelle Lam
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Deep Voice 🎤
🕑 Added 2021-05-14 16:44:12 +0000 UTCThanks to my fake internet boyfriend that I met through an online game in middle school, I grew a weird insecurity with my voice when I learned that it was not a stereotypically feminine voice. I googled ways to sound more girly, and forced myself to speak softer or more high pitched. Eventually my social anxiety just grew when it came to things as simple as ordering food, making a call, or just talking to people. This may sound easier said than done but I just eventually... stopped giving a shit 😂While I'm definitely not a singer at all in real life, when it came to the things I wanted in life like becoming a better communicator, a better story pitcher, a better whatever that involved speaking up, I had to just stop caring about what I sounded like. I started to care more about if what I said was clear enough than good enough. Turns out that not many people even care about my voice or even complimented it which helped me regain confidence in being comfortable with my voice again.
